"We
can't ever solve what we never acknowledge."
Tom
Bergeron
The
self-actualizing principle of Awareness tells us that,
"We
can only respond to what we're aware of, because
we
don't know what we don't know."
Thus
a critical step toward solving any problem is to
increase
our awareness and understanding of it.
One
way to do that is to ask assistance from people
we
trust, to ask them what they observe or might try.
The
next step is to look at what parts are in our hands
and
which thus we can control, and which parts aren't.
We
never hold more than 50 percent of a relationship,
so
we can never control the outcome in most situations
because
some things will always be out of our control.
Our
own behavior is the only part we have control over.
Where
are you limiting your awareness and chances
of
solving a problem by failing to get help from others?