Failure Principle

                            "When we run from our fears, we increase them.
                              Whenever they win, we lose."

                                                                            S. A. Sherwood

                                A fear of failure probably causes more failure
                                than anything else because it makes us give up.
                                An Irish saying says if you run from a ghost,
                                it will chase you even faster. But if you turn
                                and run toward it, the ghost will disappear.

                                The self-actualizing principle of Failure says,
                                "A failure is not a failure if you learn from it."
                                 It's feedback on what we need to succeed.
                                 It's only a failure if you run from it. Every pain
                                 is a growing pain if you get its message and
                                 grow smarter from it.

                                Think of some time you ran from a fear of failing.
                                How did that make you feel about yourself after?
                                Can you think of some time you faced your fears?
                                Win, lose or draw, how did that leave you feeling?


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